The man thinks he doesn't deserve me. My boyfriend thinks he doesn't deserve me. Reasons for this belief

Over the years of practice and helping 10,000+ women, I came across the fact that many students did not have an understanding of who a worthy man is.

Some identified him by outward signs - he gives flowers and makes compliments, others laughed and said that they had taken apart the worthy. From this article you will learn:

• How to understand that a man is standing in front of you
• How to fit in and become a real woman yourself
• Where to find a decent man

An article for girls who are temporarily without partners, have started a relationship or even have been in one for a while.

Before I talk about the signs of a real man, I’ll dwell a little on what will happen if you choose “the wrong one”.

In a relationship with an unworthy manin addition to wasting time, you risk:

• Get into a codependent relationship. From the experience of my clients, I can say that unworthy men very often turn out to be clever manipulators. They impose their desires and needs on the woman they love and make them live only in their own interests.
• Lose self-esteem.Constantly meeting the wrong men, many girls forgot how to believe in themselves and plunged into thoughts for a long time: “What is wrong with me, since there are only the wrong ones around?”
• Completely disappointed in men. I also saw many cases of girls disappointed in men and suffered from their loneliness for years.

If you do not plan to spend a lot of time and energy meeting the wrong people, read below what signs distinguish a real man.

7 Unobvious Signs of a Decent Man

Achieves goals, and does not play "patience".A worthy man will not fantasize about the topic: it would be nice to earn a million, open a business, but he will go and realize his goals.

It doesn't matter what he does - he works as an engineer in a factory or writes songs for celebrities - the important thing is that with the help of skills he knows how to earn money and perfectly understands why he needs to get up half an hour earlier in the morning.

He does not play couch driver and does not hang around for years in search of himself/depression/staggering from one job to another, but chooses a business that fascinates and becomes a pro there.

When something goes wrong, he does not blame the tyrant boss or the crisis in the country, but looks for what he screwed up and corrects his mistakes. He will not demand money from a woman and whine that everything is bad in the country, therefore, he, the king, has nowhere to go.

Doesn't run away from responsibility. Covering you with a blanket and bringing coffee to bed is not about responsibility. And even the proposal of marriage does not apply here.

Let's look at examples of what I mean by the concept of responsibility.

Alexey has his own business and team. If he does not act, then there will be nothing to pay people's salaries. He bears financial responsibility for them.

Andrei works in a taxi and, except for his car, is not responsible for anything. I have nothing against taxi drivers, the point is that the level of responsibility of the business owner is much higher than that of the driver.

A worthy man is not afraid to take risks, to expand the boundaries of his comfort, which, a priori, increases his area of ​​responsibility.

He can provide for his woman, if he cannot, then he does not start a family, but works to increase his income.

Separately, I want to say about marriage. A proverbial passport stamp and a blessing from an aunt in a tapestry suit don't guarantee a man will take charge in a relationship. I think you yourself have seen examples where, after the wedding, the husband sits on the sofa, and the woman is forced to work two jobs.

Doesn't live with parents.Your chosen one is not ready for a relationship if after the age of 25 he lives with his mother / grandmother or shares a room with his younger brother. He has not yet grown as a person, has not achieved independence.

Don't waste time on nonsense.He will not mindlessly stick in in social networks or call you every five minutes. Only slackers do this. People who do what they love and want to become pros know how to prioritize.

Of course, a worthy man devotes time to his beloved, if the woman does not eat away his brain with a teaspoon and invests herself in the relationship.

Does not live according to the principle “And so it will do.”He understands that without constant development there will be degradation, therefore, always strive to be better than he was yesterday: to earn more money, become a good father, professional employee, look better physically. Self-development for him is a lifelong journey.

He doesn't want all the money in the world out of greed, no. He works not only because of money, behind them there is always an idea to make this world a better place, to bring something valuable and important into it.

Does not criticize without feedback.“You are fat, the soup is tasteless, you haven’t ironed your shirt! Ugh!" - such phrases you will never hear from a real man. Yes, if he doesn't like something, he can say it calmly, without getting personal.

And also offer a solution to the problem. For example, instead of saying: “You are fat”, say: “Honey, I care about your health, I see you have recovered after giving birth, maybe we should write you to the hall?”.

Only an insecure person who wants to assert himself at your expense or instill a sense of guilt criticizes and calls names.

How to fit in and become a real woman yourself?

First, develop. When a girl says that she wants to relax in Monaco, receive diamonds and fur coats as a gift, but at the same time, she last read a book last year, her requests are unrealistic.

A materially independent and intellectually developed man will look for a girl to match himself.

In 90% of cases, he will not want to build a relationship with someone who does not invest time and money in her development, is not fond of anything and does not take care of herself.

You don't have to learn how to make millions or be a tough business woman to meet a real man. However, pumping up your femininity, finding your favorite business and developing in it is important.

Secondly, get rid of the negative attitude towards life.If you constantly complain that everything is bad, there are no worthy people around, then do not be surprised why there are only gigolos and alcoholics around you. What we broadcast to the world is returned to us.

Third, learn to be easy to communicate with.Do not load a man with your problems from the first date, listen more and talk less.

Decent men value tenderness and ease of communication, and not attempts to please in an unnatural way or manipulate through sex. Just in this video, I tell you what, in my understanding, a worthy woman:

Where to find a decent man?

Perhaps now you are waiting from me for the coordinates of the location of the field or a place with worthy men and you will be a little disappointed that I will not give them to you. Well, please forgive me.

I have prepared more valuable information for you - a free course. Just from it you will know:

• What to do so that a worthy man finds you himself
• How to be worthy woman for a worthy man
• How to build a harmonious serious relationship
• How to be happy in a relationship without drama and manipulation

It will help clear all doubts. Use hints and don't waste your precious time on *good luck. You deserve the best this life can give you!

conclusions

• Worthy men have signs. Is not mythical creatures but quite real people.
• To meet a real man, you need to match yourself: develop, do what you love and be easy to communicate with.
• There are no specific coordinates where real men “are found”. You can meet them anywhere. Be open and feminine, then a standing man will find you.
• For everything else, I'll help you with my free course.

Every girl needs to know the signs that a guy is not worthy of her attention. Dating a guy like that will make you miserable because they will suck the life out of you one way or another. If you have already started dating a guy unworthy of your attention, rather leave him. Believe me, you deserve the best. A girl who is looking for true love should not put up with such behavior.

He wants all your attention

If a guy is too clingy, this is the first sign that he is not worthy of you. Such a guy is easy to recognize, because he does not leave your side for a minute, 24 hours a day. In those rare moments when he is still not with you, he cuts off your phone with calls and bombards you with messages. This type of guy is emotionally needy, he'll only be happy when you're around and pout when you're apart. Avoid these guys, because they will demand that you give them all your free time and you will not have a single moment for yourself.

He often disappears

If your boyfriend often disappears and does not make himself felt for days or weeks, then it's time to say goodbye. Nowadays, it takes less than a minute to call or text, so stop putting up with this behavior if it happens regularly. A guy who is in a serious relationship does not have to be hunted down, because he is always in touch with you anyway.

He emotionally abuses you

Another sign of such a guy is emotional abuse. Emotional abuse takes many forms, such as criticism, humiliation, insults, belittling. If your boyfriend makes you feel bad, leave him. Such a guy will destroy your self-esteem and undermine your self-confidence.

He is interrogating

It's okay if your friend is often interested in your life, but if it looks like an interrogation, consider whether it is worth it to be with him. The detective guy is insecure and will examine every hour of your life in detail, looking for signs of suspicious behavior. Even when you were completely honest and sincere with him, he will accuse you of cheating. This type of guy thinks that all girls cheat and nothing you say will change his mind.

He puts little effort into relationships

A relationship with a guy who makes little effort for your union can lead to your emotional exhaustion from the fact that only you do everything to keep the relationship afloat. Relationships require the work of two, only then will people be happy and satisfied. It's not fair if the guy put all the responsibility on your shoulders. If he does not want to work on relationships, then you should not even think about such a guy.

He has a relationship, but not with you

If you go on dates with a guy who every time comes up with new excuses why he can’t be with you, then he clearly doesn’t deserve you. Usually these guys already have someone and are in a long-term relationship. You may hear from him that he cannot leave the family because of the children, or that the divorce is not yet finalized. The worst thing he can tell you is that he is still in love with her and can't choose between the two of you. If he is ready to end his long-term relationship, he will end and be with you!

He is emotionally unavailable

This is a guy who keeps his emotions under lock and key from his partner. Such a guy is not worthy of your attention, because he will never be able to give you the relationship that you are looking for. He will shy away from any serious commitment, and find a bunch of reasons for this. Perhaps he is afraid to commit himself to one girl for life, or he is still healing his broken heart, or simply does not want a serious relationship.

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Today you will find out why someone gets the best men, but you are not lucky. Why do you often agree to relationships that do not bring happiness.

How to become worthy of the best men? What do you need to know and be able to do?

And we will also talk about male infidelity, and you will understand why he cheats with someone who is dumber, older and not as beautiful as you.

So let's go...

"I have a problem with a guy!"

"Hello Oksana, first I want to thank you for your work. My name is Evgenia, I'm a student. I want to take your course, I plan to earn money over the summer and buy half a year ...

A year ago I met a young man. Previously, he sought me out and called me to marry, but now it’s worth raising the issue - he says, let’s get to know each other better. It upsets me. As if I only need it ... But I see in him my future husband, the father of my children.

But when I just sent him off, and he ran after me, I found out after a while that he cheated on me. We are both to blame. He asked for forgiveness for a long time, and I forgave. And recently I found this madam in the lists of his phone. We had a scandal!

I am desperate... Reading your books, writing a gratitude diary... But these suspicions are in me...

He does not introduce me to his parents, moreover, he never tells them if I am even nearby. How to react? I want to learn to be wise. And I understand that this is not a hobby ... In general, he is very good with me, only I understand: I do not have enough knowledge and wisdom to build relationships correctly.

I also look at her, at her face - she is not a fountain, but she is a cool figure. Of course, I'm not complete, but there is too much. It eats me from the inside.

I am very dependent on him, even when we quarrel - I'm so worried. This is my first man in intimate terms, and with regards to relationships.

Recently I asked him: "What did you find in her? She's terrible!" And he said, "I don't look at it." She seemed smart to him. I'm confused! Help, Oksana, please."

Evgenia.

Evgenia, you write that you are keeping a diary of gratitude for him. But it won't help in your situation. By the way, in my books I have explained many times that it is impossible to solve problems with grooms the way we solve them with husbands - in these situations a different approach is needed.

Understand one simple thought:
You met him a year ago. You have a great passion, and you write that he ran after you. It `s naturally. But after a while, his period of passion ended, and he began to stare at other ladies. A short period of passion and falling in love happens with men a la "Womanizer", because. due to the frequent change of pleasures (and sex with a new partner is a pleasure for him) - this period is inevitably reduced. This is a scientific fact.

If a man, even during the period of passion and courtship, cheated on you, it means that he will continue to cheat. And this is also a fact. If you don’t believe me, check: do it in such a way as to awaken passion in him, and marry him (I explained in detail how to do this in the article). I give a full guarantee - in six months you will write to me that he is cheating on you.

If a man already has a program "to enjoy only with the help of other women", and the sublimation function does not work well for him, this is a low-quality man. Do you need one?

What would I do in your case?

I would complete this gestalt. But she finished competently in order to maintain her self-esteem at the proper level.

You need to agree to be with this man ONLY ON YOUR OWN TERMS. If he doesn’t go for them, it will be disgusting for you to continue these relationships, and you can easily stop them and find yourself a better man.

If you continue this love drag, where he does not appreciate you, and you cling to him, you can make yourself a big neurosis.

Who needs a relationship?

"... He used to seek me and called me to marry, but now it's worth raising the question - he says, let's get to know each other better. It upsets me. As if I only need it ... But I see in him a future husband, father my children..."

Let's look at the situation through his eyes (and he clearly has a neurotic view of things).

He already doesn’t want you so passionately as at the beginning of courtship, so he additionally sleeps with another lady. He is pleased, because. each male likes to have more than one female at a time. Any baboon from this increases self-esteem. It is only an adult and self-sufficient man who needs one, and the most BEST woman. Baboons also breed monkey harem. By the way, women with low self-esteem also like to have several men - this is a matter of personal development. And you don’t set any conditions for him - it’s convenient for him - so he keeps you close.

You want a serious relationship with him. But he doesn't. You play by his rules, so the situation does not change. If you play by your own rules, and kindle passion in him (even if only for a short time), you can marry him.

But! You will also receive a 100% guarantee that he will cheat on you. Think you need it? Doesn't that humiliate you?

The humorist Mikhail Evdokimov had a wife and a couple of mistresses. After his death, they publicly and noisily divided his property. Of course, they understood that they were not the only ones with their beloved man, but they knew how to put up with it - after all, he is rich, witty, successful and famous - the "pluses" outweighed this "minus".

But your fiancé is not Evdokimov, and he does not have such "advantages" ... Will you be able to tolerate his other women in the future? ..

What did he find in her?

"...Recently I asked him:" What did you find in her? She's scary!" And he said: "I don't look at it." She seemed smart to him. I'm confused! .. "

Let's unravel this.

A man can cheat even with an ugly one, even with a stupid one, and even with someone who is older than you. And why - you will never be recognized.

Do you know why? As one of my sexologist friends said: "Because the pussy itched..."

You see, all men want other women. Just like women want other men. This is physiological and normal. But not everyone has an internal moral brake, the ability to appreciate relationships. Not everyone has moral principles. Not everyone knows how to sublimate their libidinal energy - and pursue a career, art or science. It is easier for many to perform their animal function, inherited from baboons. Scientists, unfortunately, perfectly proved that we are still more animals than people. And this is the reality of life.

If you contact a sexologist about your man's infidelities, he will tell you exactly this.

Tell me, why am I worse than her?

Why are you even asking him what he found in her?

Basically, your question reads: "Tell me why she is better than me than I am worse than her?"

A woman who values ​​and respects herself will not even think why he cheated. "Well, the pussy itched, so what? I'm so beautiful and delightful that my man can't even think that I'm worse than someone." Therefore, she will not even be interested in anything like that.

And if she is interested, it means that she herself programs the man in her own words: "I'm worse than her!"

A woman who does not value herself asks a man what he finds in other ladies.

A woman who loves and appreciates herself constantly makes it clear to a man that she deserves only the best, which is why he considers her the best.

Is he really good?

"... In general, he is very good with me, only I understand: I do not have enough knowledge and wisdom to build relationships correctly ..."

"Good" is your illusion. All of them are "good" as long as there is Passion and Love. And when the Passion ends, everything will be twenty times worse. Therefore, I recommend solving the problem through parting, and on your own terms.

I'm generally surprised by the girls talking about what they have " good guy". I have already explained a hundred times - they are "good" only temporarily, and in 3-5 years they will treat you like an ordinary person. This is a scientific fact. Therefore, you should not put his "goodness" on the scales - it is not for long.

If a guy treats his parents well. If he is serious and responsible, makes a career, has wonderful hobbies in life, and fulfills your requests, these are real indicators.

But if he treats women like a pig (and he is cheating on both of you!) - this is a low-grade man.

Women, don't be stupid! Learn to think with your head. A man is "good" when he has a whole carriage and a small cart of excellent real qualities and character traits. And if he is "good" only because he has a temporary clouding of his mind due to passionate sex with you, then this is guaranteed to end soon.

"... I also look at her, at her face - she is not a fountain, but she is a cool figure ... Of course, I am not full, but there is too much ... It eats me from the inside ..."

In terms of weight and appearance - this is complete nonsense. Read articles on our blog on - work through them, and the problem will go away. There are also a lot of useful techniques developed over the years that have already helped thousands of women solve problems with low self-esteem. I give everything for free - just do it!

"... I am very dependent on him, even when we quarrel - I'm so worried ... This is my first man in an intimate way, and with regards to relationships ..."

Evgeniya, you feel sorry for yourself now. And you need to pull yourself together and grow up. And solve the problem properly.

By enrolling in the course, the emphasis in your work will be on your self-esteem. Look for reasons: who and why did you underestimate it so much, why do you choose in life what hurts you? Why do you DO NOT LOVE and VALUE yourself so much?

If you build and write down clear goals in life, create a voluminous image of a relationship with a man that you really like - you can translate it into reality. Work hard and you'll be fine!

Why do some people get the best men and you don't?

"Oksana, good afternoon!
I discovered your wonderful project, now I receive a newsletter every day. I think to enter your course and describe what I have today.

Until recently, it seemed to me that everything in my life was more or less good. I have been married for 7 years, my child is 3 years old, the apartment is in a mortgage, the work is good. But all this does not please me at all.

She got married without love, but rather, in retaliation to the Don Juan man who broke my heart - they say, that's how quickly she found a replacement. I don't love my husband, and I never could. Now in the process of divorce. I'm trying to maintain friendly relations, for the sake of my daughter, she must have a father. I always stared at other men, saw worthy and interesting ones, but seemed to think that they were not for me.

A year ago I met a man, we talked about interests, just like that. He is married. I was sure that we would just be hobby friends. But in the spring he began to actively look after me, I'm interested in him, and, in general, I gave up. But he doesn’t want to change anything in his life, and I realized that I didn’t want to be a mistress. And yesterday I told him about it.

Everything is complicated, right? :) To enroll in your course, will there be any sense?"

Sincerely, Nina.

"... I always stared at other men, I saw worthy and interesting ones, but it seemed that I thought that they were not for me..."

It is important to understand one simple thing:
Women who are now married to better men are NOT smarter, NOT prettier, and NOT any better than you. They may even be older, dumber, and not as attractive as you.

But they have one advantage over you:
They just think they DESERVE a better man. And without reproaches and contradictions, they get what they want.

But how to get this Dignity?

You need to create the right INTENT, that, "Yes, I WORTHY best husband. And I WILL GET it!"

And this will already be the result of your work with our course. You need to sprout in your brain the necessary connections between neurons, and remove those that are contrary to this Intention. It's practice, practice and more practice.

And write him a couple of psychologically well-written letters, explaining to yourself why you did it and consider it right (it is not necessary to send letters). How to write letters, I explained in the article and in the discussion. And the Practice of Forgiveness from our course will help you complete this situation completely.

"... I got married without love, but rather in retaliation to the Don Juan man who broke my heart, they say, that's how quickly I found a replacement ..."

You had an hysterical need to prove something to someone. But this, fortunately, is treated. If you create the Image of your beautiful life, then over time you will understand that it is much more pleasant to BE, and not to APPEAR. And it’s better to prove only to myself that I can and will achieve more - and others will manage (why waste your life and precious energy on everyone?)

To learn this, instill new habits in yourself. And the main one: be able to love and appreciate yourself without sacrificing yourself for the sake of some stupid principles.

Nina, you were able to conduct a competent analysis of your life. And this is the first step to improve it. Keep up the good work, you will succeed!

"... I don't love my husband and have never been able to love. Now I'm in the process of a divorce. I'm trying to maintain friendly relations, for the sake of my daughter, she must have a father ..."

Goals and Intentions are correct. Everything else is a matter of technique. I wrote in detail about how to maintain a relationship with a man in my book.

And we maintain friendly relations with the help and

How to learn to love your husband

"I don't love my husband!" This is, in fact, a diagnosis.

Many naive ladies believe that you need to marry for love - then there will be happiness! But this is all nonsense. Because the period of passion does not last more than a year, and being in love lasts 3-5 years. And then what?

If a woman does not have behavior patterns to LOVE a loved one, she will not love him. But to be angry with him, to be offended, to scold and hate - this is as much as you like. And I give you a guarantee: if you got married out of a huge and wild love for that Don Juan or someone else, in a few years you would hate him too ...

Because Love and True Intimacy with a person (here I'm not talking about sexual intimacy, but about intellectual, spiritual) are certain patterns of behavior. If they are, everything will be fine. If not, you will live in complete ... opera.

"I want my husband to go in for sports and start earning a lot! How can I influence him?"

Not all meetings and acquaintances develop into something more. Sometimes a serious relationship is impossible due to the fact that a man does not suit you in some way, but in some cases you may not suit a man. There is nothing wrong with this, because you must admit that love is a complex feeling, and often it arises for reasons beyond our control. In this situation, it would be logical for a man to simply break off the relationship, inviting you to remain friends. But it turns out that not all representatives of the stronger sex find the courage to explain themselves. Some men find it much easier to lie, making up non-existent reasons why you can't be together. Sometimes these excuses look pretty ridiculous, but if you have fallen head over heels in love, you are likely to be ready to believe in any fiction, if only to further indulge yourself in vain illusions.

Here are the 7 most common excuses that you should hear that a man just wants to get rid of you.

1. You are too good for me.

No normal person will give up what he really likes, considering himself unworthy of happiness. If a man tells you that you are too good / beautiful / smart for him, know that he just wants to look like a gentleman in your eyes and is afraid to offend you. Nobody leaves a partner if they think they are perfect, because that sounds stupid to say the least.

2. I still love my ex

Some of this may be true. It is possible that a man really feels affection for his ex girlfriend, but if he is interested in you and hopes for a continuation of the novel, he will never admit his sincere feelings. With this phrase, the man makes it clear that there will be no romance between you, but not because his heart is not free, but for some other reason.

3. I'm too busy

When a person is in love, or at least feels sincere sympathy, he will find time for a relationship with the object of his passion, regardless of the workload, study or other important matters. If a man justifies himself with his busyness and lack of free time, this means that he simply does not know how to tell you about his dislike. The man hopes that you will guess the real reason for this excuse.

4. I lost your phone number and did not know how to find you

This phrase claims to be the most stupid male excuse. Let's say a man really lost your phone number, but there are dozens of other ways to find right person. If a man really wants to find the girl he likes, do not doubt that he will figure out how to do it. He will be on duty under your house, find you on social networks, find your place of work or study, where he will meet your friends. This excuse can sound plausible only in one case, if you met, for example, in the subway, managed to exchange phone numbers and names, and then went in different directions. And then, if there is a real interest, a man will be smart and find you, because this will become his “fix” idea.

5. It's not about you, it's about me

Hearing such a phrase, a girl in love will become even more mired in her feelings. After all, it sounds so mysterious and suggests that there are some serious problems in the life of a man, but he does not want to bother you with them. A mind clouded by falling in love will come up with a logical explanation for any excuse, but if you are used to looking at the world soberly, don’t even hesitate - a man is just looking for a reason to break off relations with you. And, as if taking the blame on himself, he tries to avoid a frank conversation.

6. I'm not ready for a serious relationship right now.

A man really may not be ready for a serious relationship, however, he will never admit this girl he likes. Having fallen in love, a young man, on the contrary, will do everything possible to show the seriousness of his intentions, even if this is not true. This phrase is a common excuse, which, on the one hand, protects you from being too straightforward, but on the other hand, makes it clear that there is no future between you.

7. I don't deserve you

Modesty is not the most common trait of a male character. You can be sure that this man is not worthy of you, because he did not have the courage to openly declare his plans, and he chose an easier, but less honest path. If a man says that he is not good enough to be around you, this means that he did not originally plan anything serious, however, he does not want to admit it.

Feeling rejected is not the most pleasant emotion in life. However, when you hear a variation of one of the above phrases, don't let yourself get downcast or discouraged. If love did not happen, this does not mean that you are not worthy of it. It's just that this particular man is not the hero of your novel, but very soon you will meet a person who will become one.

Do you want to choose a worthy man for a serious relationship? In the article you will learn the signs of an unworthy man, from a relationship with which you must immediately run as fast as you can. Let only worthy men surround your lovely person!

A man who is not worthy of you: 10 signs

1. He behaves in a familiar manner and communicates with you and with other people in an excellent manner.

DO NOT tolerate this for a second, so tell him “why are you talking to me like that ?! Don't talk to me like that!" If it was feigned and out of excitement, he will immediately change his manner and switch to "you." And if this is his LIVING POSITION, he will not change his mind - send him to the forest, you will not change him.

This means that he generally does not consider women to be people, and in the future he will only behave worse. And remember, everyone can pretend to be polite and cultured.

2. On the first date or when meeting you, he grabs you by the fifth point, by the chest, touches your knees.

This means that he perceives you purely as a sexual object and does not respect you. In principle, he silently demonstrates his attitude to you, it may even be consciously so that you do not experience illusions and build far-reaching plans for him.

3. He invited you on a date, and he rides you in a car with a hint or direct text that he wants to retire with you, whether in a car, or go to him.

Do not be tempted by his passion, he can say that you are very beautiful, sexy, which is crazy about you and in the same spirit - this is a cheap divorce for sex.

4. On the contrary, he will say that you are squeezed, insecure, like a little one, all to bring down your self-esteem, do not buy into it.

A worthy man, on the contrary, would compliment you and keep himself on an equal footing with you. Otherwise, if you are small, why is he with you?

5. He is unworthy if he shows you his ex-wives, shows their photos and text messages. About how they all love him and want him.

Whom does he convince? Remember, the strong will never demonstrate their strength, unless of course he is also stupid.

6. He doesn't waste money on you. He treats you to a plastic cup of tea from McDonald's.

There are times when a man immediately says whatever you want, I only have 200 rubles. Refuse such a date, you will be poisoned by this tea for these 200 rubles, and then he will ask you for it.

7. He immediately asks to come to your house, or invites you to his place, in order to lay you in a horizontal position.

Sew off immediately such a precocious-quick-shooter. Be glad that he appreciated you outwardly, but for a serious relationship, you also need a rich inner content.

8. Unworthy men often have nowhere to live. They are kicked out of the house, by their parents or wives.

If such a person is going to live right away with you, let this alert you. If you want to feel sorry for him - do not regret later on your hasty decision!

9. He doesn't have a job because he's not a slave to hunchback for a penny or his boss is a fool.

The unwillingness to "work for the owner" is often a sign of an irresponsible man.

10. In an unworthy man, everyone is always to blame, the country, ex-wife, Chief. And much more. And his women are all fools.

Take responsibility for your decision not to be with such a man and you won't be just another fool on his list.

Let only worthy men surround your lovely person!